If you fall in love with an Aries
woman, you'll never lack for excitement. But are you the
kind of man
who can handle a full-blooded independent, forceful female?
Because that's what Aries woman is.
This passionate, intense creature can't give a tepid response.
She's a fully stocked fireplace, with logs,
kindling and paper, waiting for the touch of a match to set her
on fire.
In her relations with men she is domineering. You can either
accept it or leave. If you stay, you've made the first concession
on a long road. At the end, you're likely to find you've been
molded and shaped to fit her image of what her love should be.
What Aries woman wants, she gets. When a man meets an
irresistible force like her, he tends to become
a highly movable object.
She needs love and gets more than her share, but no man becomes
her lord and master. She meets a man on equal terms. If he offers
loyalty, she repays him in kind. If he is untrustworthy, she also
repays him in kind.
In love she will be faithful, but she expects total fidelity in
return. Her jealousy is rooted in
possessiveness. She doesn't want a lover who has too many other
interests. She wants all of him-or
nothing at all.
There is an important distinction to make about her jealousy that
may be useful in helping to understand her fundamental character.
She isn't jealous because of a feeling of insecurity (the root
cause of most jealousy), but because she has to be number one.
The Aries woman finds happiness in a long-term relationship. She
enjoys sharing everything with a lover and she is highly
affectionate, even sentimental. She will be your staunchest ally,
fight side by side with you, believe in you, and encourage you.
She's a marvelous companion for a man on the way up or fighting
to stay at the top because she'll give him all the strength and
determination she has. She's definitely ambitious.
When she does not feel she is loved she can become shrill and
demanding. Above all, she won't tolerate
being ignored or neglected. The straight road to perdition is a
relationship with an unhappy Aries woman.
She wants to be understood and appreciated for her unique
qualities. If you handle her with tact and give her the
admiration she needs, this vivacious, active, mischievous,
sensual, fascinating woman will do anything you ask.
Aries Man
It would be superfluous to say he has fiery emotions because he
has practically no other kind. He's
always in search of something that will satisfy his pioneering,
ever-aggressive lust for adventure. He
moves within a self-created aura of excitement and somehow things
happen wherever he is.
He won't be easy to resist. Think it over before you say even a
tentative no. Where else will you find a
lover as adventurous, original, virile and vital? A woman who is
attracted to an Aries male should be
willing o settle for a brilliant, exciting and generally short
affair. Romantically, he dotes on challenge and novelty. To him,
the world is a garden of feminine flowers and he can't afford to
miss the scent of a
single lovely bloom. There are so many delights to sample-before
winter comes. He is always eager for a
new experience. At first, that's all a woman represents to him.
However, there is a vulnerable side to this man. He believes in
the Eternal Woman, a romanticized
version of the beautiful goddess whom he will sweep off her feet.
He doesn't understand deviousness in a relationship, and if a
woman appears innocent and yielding he won't look further. If he
discovers that he has been duped and taken advantage of, his
bewilderment and hurt quickly turn to anger.
Aries is an actor-out of sexual fantasies. The minute he finds
himself daydreaming about a sexual
situation, he sets to work trying to make it a reality. And
something about his blunt, direct approach, "the battering
ram," gets results where more subtle means might fail. He
leaves no doubt of his intention from the first, but comes at you
directly. His manner is forceful, aggressive and winning. He is
used to winning.
On your first date you'll learn that you cannot take the lead. He
will tell you where you're going and
when; you can simply relax and leave it all in his capable hands.
He is impulsive to the point of rashness. When he wants you, he
wants you. He has no control over his
passions and must go anywhere his desires impel him. He doesn't
worry about consequences.
This man has energy, imagination, and sheer physical exuberance.
Any woman who has had an Aries
man around the house will tell you she had an exciting time-while
it lasted.