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Everyone should
do something very special on this day for their mothers.
But remember that your mother should be treated special
throughout the year and just not on Mother's Day. And
tell your mother every chance you get that she is special
and that you love her.
I love my mom
(Eileen), my grandmother (LaVera) and my aunts (LaDonna,
Dea, Arlene and Charolette) very much and I miss them. I
moved 5000 miles away and I can't pick up the phone or
take a ride down the road to see or speak to them
everytime I want to. And there is another person that I
would also like to mention, Mama Whelan, she is like my
second mother. I was (am) a friend of her daughter and
son then I became very close with the family.
It's like having a second family. I am a very lucky
person to have all these people to love and them to love
me.
HAPPY
MOTHER'S DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A
history of Mother's Day
EARLY CELEBRATIONS
Some historians claim that the predecessor of the
Mother's Day holiday was the ancient spring festival
dedicated to mother goddesses.
In the ancient Greek empire the spring festival honored
Rhea, wife of Cronus and mother of the gods and
goddesses. In Rome the most significant Mother's Day-like
festival was dedicated to the worship of Cybele, another
mother goddess. Ceremonies in her honor began some 250
years before Christ was born. This Roman religious
celebration, known as Hilaria, lasted for three days -
from March 15 to 18!
ENGLAND'S MOTHERING
SUNDAY
More like the modern celebration of Mother's Day is
England's "Mothering Sunday", also called
Mid-Lent Sunday, observed on the fourth Sunday in Lent.
Some say the ceremonies in honor of Cybele were adopted
by the early church to venerate the Mother of Christ,
Mary. Others believe the Mother Church was substituted
for mother goddess and custom began to dictate that a
person visit the church of his/her baptism on this day.
People attended the mother church of their parish, laden
with offerings.
Also in England in the 1600's, young men and women who
were apprentices or servants returned home on Mothering
Sunday, bringing to their mothers small gifts like
trinkets or a "mothering cake". Sometimes
furmety was served - wheat grains boiled in sweet milk,
sugared and spiced.
In northern England and in Scotland, the preferred
refreshments were carlings - pancakes made of steeped
pease fried in butter, with pepper and salt. In fact, in
some locations this day was called Carling Sunday.
Another kind of mothering cake was the simnel cake, a
very rich fruit cake. The Lenten fast dictated that the
simnel cake had to keep until Easter. It was boiled in
water, then baked, and was often finished with an almond
icing. Sometimes the crust was of flour and water,
colored with saffron.
INTEREST STARTS IN THE UNITED STATES
Anna M. Jarvis (1864-1948) is credited with originating
our Mother's Day holiday. She never married and was
extremely attached to her mother, Mrs. Anna Reese Jarvis.
Mrs. Jarvis was a minister's daughter who for 20 years
taught Sunday School in the Andrews Methodist Church of
Grafton, West Virginia. Miss Jarvis graduated from the
Female Seminary in Wheeling, West Virginia, and taught in
Grafton before moving to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, with
the rest of her family.
Anna Reese Jarvis died in Philadelphia in May of 1905.
Still unmarried and left alone with her blind sister
Elsinore, Anna missed her mother greatly. Two years after
her mother's death (1907) Anna Jarvis and her friends
began a letter-writing campaign to gain the support of
influential ministers, businessmen and congressmen in
declaring a national Mother's Day holiday. She felt
children often neglected to appreciate their mother
enough while the mother was still alive. She hoped
Mother's Day would increase respect for parents and
strengthen family bonds.
Today, because and despite
Jarvis' efforts, many celebrations of Mother's Days are
held throughout the world. Although they do not all fall
at the same time, such countries as Denmark, Finland,
Italy, Turkey, Australia and Belgium also celebrate
Mother's Day on the same day as the United States
THE FIRST MOTHER'S DAY
The first Mother's Day observance was a church service
honoring Mrs. Anna Reese Jarvis, held at Anna Jarvis's
request in Grafton, West Virginia, and in Philadelphia,
Pennsylvania, on May 10, 1908.
Carnations, her mother's favorite flowers, were supplied
at that first service by Miss Jarvis. White carnations
were chosen because they represented the sweetness,
purity and endurance of mother love. Red carnations, in
time, became the symbol of a living mother. White ones
now signify that one's mother has died.
OTHER MOTHER'S DAY OBSERVANCES
The first Mother's Day proclamation was issued by the
governor of West Virginia in 1910. Oklahoma celebrated
Mother's Day that year as well. By 1911 every state had
its own observances. By then other areas celebrating
Mother's Day included Mexico, Canada, China, Japan, South
America and Africa. The Mother's Day International
Association was incorporated on December 12, 1912, with
the purpose of furthering meaningful observations of
Mother's Day.
OFFICIAL PROCLAMATION
The House of Representatives in May, 1913, unanimously
adopted a resolution requesting the President, his
Cabinet, members of Congress, and all officials of the
federal government to wear a white carnation on Mother's
Day. Congress passed another Joint Resolution May 8,
1914, designating the second Sunday in May as Mother's
Day. The U.S. flag is to be displayed on government
buildings and at people's homes "as a public
expression of our love and reverence for the mothers of
our country." President Woodrow Wilson issued the
first proclamation making Mother's Day an official
national holiday.



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